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Livia & Claudiu

The BIG Wedding Day 😀
“Wedding” literally meant the purchase of a bride for breeding purposes. 🙂
The word wedding comes from the root meaning to gamble or wager. The Anglo-Saxon word “wedd” meant that the groom would vow to marry the woman, but it also meant that the groom paid the bride’s father. This is believed why it is still customary for the father-of-the-bride to “give away” his daughter.

What means marriage … to me…? Hmm… Marriage to me is a partneship, a lifelong commitment to support and be there for each other no matter what… It means trusting, giving, security in each others love and support; it means always having someone to talk to, laugh with, confide in, and work together with… 🙂

Our Wedding Day… 😀 I am not sure how do i begin to describe this day? The day…was just perfect for us, a sunny day, perfect for starting the most unforgettable day 🙂 It was the best day of our lives, and it was indeed the Best Day Ever!

The week leading up to the wedding was a mixed bag of emotions… excitement, laughs, nerves, stress … pretty much, but most of all a lot of love. 🙂
It was very important to us, from the get go, that everything would be kept simple, classic… with a kind of vintage mood… and that the focus of the day would be about celebrating with our loved ones. Our photographers, Lavinia and Patrick – C’est Lavi Photography, really captured that feeling in their beautiful photos.

You can see the photos here: Wedding Day

My only advice to anyone planning their wedding: don’t stress the small stuff, and savour every single moment. It goes by so quickly… people tell you that, but you won’t realise until you’re truly in it… 🙂

Wedding Teaser:

Livia 😀



Hmm wedding 😀 Marriage? I think marriage is a way to legalize your love for one another. Nothing will change in my relationship I will still love him as much as a husband just the same I love him as a boyfriend. To me marriage is nothing more then just a legal contract your are signing with the person you are making a life long contract with.

How do I define marriage? What makes it sacred? If marriage means a loving couple committing to each other for the rest of their lives, who else should be part of the equation? Some people believe a marriage is only valid if done in church by a priest, while others are content to be legally married in a courthouse. Some couples want to have a ceremony to involve all the people they love as witnesses of the solidifying of their union. Some couples already feel committed to their bond but want the law to acknowledge their bond for tax, insurance, and other legal purposes such as having the rights of a family member in emergency matters surrounding their beloveds.

Honestly I think marriage means different things to each individual, and can change depending on age and personal experience…

Well… my wedding’s calling soon 🙂 and I am happy 😀

See our 1set of wedding pics: cununia civila


Pandora BraceletA long time ago I’ve seen a friend of my mother wearing a complete Pandora bracelet… I couldn’t stop thinking of it, it was so beautiful, but I didn’t knew anything about Pandora, so it remained a mystery to me…
Few months ago I have discovered Pandora on the Internet… I recognized some of the charms, and I said to myself: THIS IS IT! And this it was… now I must admit the fact that I start my second bracelet (my favorite charms are the two-tone ones)

Why Pandora? Because Pandora charms are handmade, crafted with attention and love, and this makes them filled with positive energy, so that every single charm is unique and one of a kind like I am.
I did also received a Pandora ring from my boyfriend, which fits perfectly with my bracelet.
I must admit that I love getting jewelry from the one I love. There’s something about gold and diamonds and precious gemstones that adds to the significance of the gift full of love.
And speaking of love, I like being told I’m loved… a lot. And receiving such a gift can be seen as the physical symbol of the declaration of the love. If love and positive energy is in my jewelry, this story will live on in this piece of jewelry.

Every time when I look at my ring and charms, I’m reminded of the love which lives in them and all of their significance… for each uniqe moment of my life. It’s a wonderful feeling which can be seen if one looks into my eyes, the shine in my eyes is like a gem in the twinkling stars, and staring into my eyes the whole world is enchanted. 🙂


See more: Pandora jewelry – Pandora Charms, Pandora bracelet

Stop obsessive ThoughtsThoughts obsessive? Stop them!
You might have reached a point in your life where you want to be rid of the continuous torture of the “thought generating” mind…

Obsessive or negative thoughts can make living miserable when you are plagued by them, but this very situation can become the invitation to transcend mind and be free of suffering forever.

Question: Can you stop obsessive thoughts?  If you could it would be great, but the truth is that it’s slightly more complicated than just suppressing your thoughts which at-most you can do for a few seconds. Plus suppressing thoughts is even worse than enduring thoughts. It builds up a lot of negative energy inside. So how to stop thinking horrible thoughts? The secret to stopping obsessive or negative thoughts is to detach from the mind. You cannot fight mind with the mind. That’s what this article is about. Let’s look at this in more detail.

What Causes Obsessive Thoughts?
If you generated thoughts, you could’ve controlled them too. The truth is that you don’t generate thoughts, the mind does. It’s on auto mode most of the time. You can see this for yourself, can you predict what you will think 30 seconds from now? If you can’t how can you assume that you are generating the thoughts? If you believe that you are your mind, that’s a false notion again. If you are your mind then how can you observe the thoughts? So you must be separate from the mind to see what the mind is doing. So the mind generates thoughts, which are mostly just energy forms. These thoughts pass through like clouds. We identify with some of these thoughts and obsess about them. So in truth all thoughts are just neutral energy forms, it’s “your” interest or association with the thoughts that makes them obsessive. If you can understand this truth, you have taken the first step towards getting rid of obsessive thoughts.

How to Stop Obsessive Negative Thoughts?
If you are asking this question, ask yourself another question – “is this question not another thought? It’s a thought about killing thoughts”. All your attempts at suppressing and stopping thoughts will fail because you will be using the mind to stop the mind. The police man and thief are both the mind, so how can the police man catch the thief? So you cannot kill the mind by force. The mind dies its own death by the poison of disassociation.

What gives power to a thought? – Your interest. If you have no interest in a particular thought then it loses its hold over you. You can try this out now. Let the thoughts flow through your mind but don’t take interest in them. Just stay as a bystander or a watcher and let the thoughts float. Initially you might have a hard time watching thoughts because of your inherent habit of associating with each thought that arises. It helps to know that you are not your thoughts, that thoughts are just energy forms created in the mind. Why does the mind create thoughts? No one knows – it’s just something it does, why bother. Do you ever ask why does the heart beat? With a little practice you will get really good at watching thoughts and not involving yourself with them. You will stop giving power to thoughts by not giving them your interest. Thoughts die immediately when they are deprived of this fuel of interest. If you don’t associate with the thought or give power to the thought, it will wither away quickly.

What Are Thoughts?
Past events get stored as memories. Your mind conditioning and beliefs are also stored as memories. All this is unconscious storage; the mind does all this in auto mode. Perceptions and interpretations are created in the mind based on its past “external” conditioning and also its natural conditioning (genetics). These interpretations, perceptions and judgments come up as thoughts in the mind, and they can positive or negative depending on the mind’s conditioning. Thoughts are generated based on the past incidents/memories, future projections and interpretations on the present life situation. It’s like a computer trying to predict or conjure up projection based on the data it has collected so far. When thoughts are negative in nature (thoughts of worry, anxiety, stress, lack, resentment, guilt etc) they produce resistance to the movement of your life, and this resistance is felt as suffering. Negative thoughts will always stand in resistance to the movement of your life, like blocks of stone in the midst of a swift current of water. Life is a stream of pure positive energy and hence any negative thought will stand in opposition to it, causing friction which is felt as suffering in the body. The thoughts in your mind gain power from your attention and interest. Your attention is the fuel for your mind. So when you give attention to negative thoughts in the mind, you are unconsciously fueling it and thus attracting more momentum for these negative thoughts. The momentum of negative thoughts in your mind will slow down, and ebb away, automatically when you stop feeding your attention to it. Stay as an open space of awareness without contracting your attention on the negative thoughts of the mind, and soon they will lose their momentum.

You can focus on the positive thoughts generated in the mind, and thus develop a positive momentum in your mind. Every time your mind produces some positive thoughts, e.g thoughts of love, joy, excitement, abundance, beauty, appreciation, passion, peace etc, focus on it, milk it, and give attention to it. This will cause your mind to attract more positive thoughts and thus build a positive momentum. Whenever it thinks negatively, don’t give it attention or interest, this will cause the ebbing away of the momentum of negative thinking. It’s really that simple. Once you understand the mechanics of how thoughts gain momentum in the mind, you will be in total control of your state of being.

The Practice of Watching the Mind
All you need to do to get rid of obsessive thoughts is to watch the mind without getting involved. You will get really good at this with just a little practice. This practice, or “sadhana” as called in Hindu scriptures, is the root of awakening from the illusion of mind. Without trying to understand this practice just implement it. The more you try to understand the more mind gets involved. Just watch the mind and you will soon see that you are not the mind at all. That the mind is like a machine in your head that generates thoughts based on your attention/interest. Be free of your mind by depriving it of your interest. This is the only direct path of becoming free of the mind.


Basking in the still of night…

Beneath the lights of the heavens, in the stillness of the night… Love… this is one of the great undefined mysteries of life. The fact that the perception of “love” can be viewed in so many different ways by humans often clouds the true definition of the word.

It makes you so vulnerable and opens you up to the greatest joy and the greatest pain. Your life is no longer your own because it allows someone to get inside you and touch your soul and control your emotions and take your heart hostage.

“Tell me where is fancy bred, in the heart, or in the head?” asked Shakespeare. He was one of millions who, over the centuries, have wondered where romantic love comes from.

Plato wrote in The Symposium in 416 B.C. that the God of Love “lives in a state of need.” This need is a basic human drive. Like thirst and hunger, it is nearly impossible to stamp out. In fact, lovers show all of the signs of addiction. Like drug addicts, they focus on the beloved, distort reality, and do inappropriate or even dangerous things to win this precious creature, crave his or her company and suffer withdrawals and despair if rejected. Lovers relapse like addicts, too.

I think about this image of lying in bed on a Sunday morning fully clothed next to him… and feeling totally content. Feeling like there is nowhere you would rather be and nothing you would rather be doing. Just looking at him and feeling like the rest of the world couldn’t possibly imagine what this is like. Feeling like you are both on the same page and everything you are feeling is mutual…

Yes… we’re basking in the still of night… 🙂


Time & Awakening Process & Pleiadians
Poate ati observat sau poate nu… timpul trece din ce in ce mai repede… nu?! Sa fie oare mult mai comprimat? Oare de ce? Oare ce proces parcurge planeta noastra? Probabil fiecare a auzit de ce cele 7 planete, pe nume Pleiade. Ce este oare un ‚awakning process’ despre care se vorbeste deja pe o sumedenie de situri.
Daca dorim sa ne trezim la ‚realitate’ este important sa analizam toate posibilitatile pentru a ajunge la o cunoastere cat mai amanuntita pentru a afla defapt cine suntem cu adevarat!?! Daca exista totusi un sistem de viata … paralel cu sistemul nostru de viata…!!!? Un astfel de sistem… pleiediar sa-i zic asa, ar functiona oricum in afara conceptului nostru de timp liniar. Atat timp cat acesta exista intr-un alt sistem… de stele (Pleiade), acesta exista in afata ideii noastre normale de timp. Este inuman sa-ti poti explica logic cum este totusi posibil ca aici de ex. 2500 de ani sa fie echivalentul cu un weekend intr-un alt sistem…
Problema timpului este mult mai complexa… iar procesul de ‚trezire’ implica in primul rand realizarea faptului ca acest concept de timp nu exista cu adevarat, acesta nu se desfasoara intr-o linie dreapta. Oare de ce nu am fost invatati la scoala sa ne folosimt de tot ceea ce ne sta in putiinta… ca fiinta umana? Sa fie oare guvernul capul rautatilor pe aceasta planeta…? Fiecare are dreptul sa-si formeze ideeea sa proprie… important e sa stii de ce alegi sa crezi ceva sau nu. Iar acest „stiut” este foarte relativ, fiind uneori valabil doar pentru o mica parte dintre noi…

The Pleiadian stars themselves hold a certain type of frequency. Each and every
star in the universe holds a frequency, an intention. The intention of the Pleiadian
system is one of love, emotional love. The stars themselves are a group
consciousness. They appear in light bodies, they contain all the colours of the
rainbow but are predominately blues and turquoise. The blue vibration is one of
harmony, truth and balance. This energy ray brings a possibility of bringing the
emotions into balance. Beings from other places come to this star system to heal,
align and balance their emotional bodies. The turquoise ray brings a cleansing that
enables beings to move beyond the confining dramas of their emotional bodies and
step more into the acceptance and unconditional love of another.

It is hard to explain the schools of learning, as they are not third dimensional in
any way, but fifth dimensional. They are light. Imagine a temple made of light, with
a movement, a sound that runs through it. The beings radiate from their bodies a
frequency in light, colour and sound that harmonises those that come into contact
with them. Simply by being in their presence they are able to heal out the blocks and
issues that prevent them from being in emotional truth. Many beings who are
Pleiadian in their soul are here on earth now are musicians of one sort or another.
They are trying to bring frequencies to earth that will aid the balance of emotions.
Many of them are singers, as the human voice and words are capable of bringing in
harmonies that instruments just cannot.
The Pleiades is sometimes called the Plough. It comprises of seven stars, which
are also called the seven sisters. It is possible to see them in our night sky. There
are many inhabited planets orbiting these stars, housing a variety of different beings.
There are two major groups of beings, one is Humanoid and the other is Reptilian.
The humanoid Pleiadians appear very similar to us, as we took a lot of our
characteristics in form, from these Pleiadian beings. If you were to see a Pleiadian
walk down the street, you would not recognize them as aliens, however you would
notice that they are exceptionally beautiful, often with large almond shaped eyes.
These Pleiadians are very connected with the story of Earth and its human
inhabitants. Beings from the Pleiades have been coming to Earth, for thousands of
years. They visited Earth long before humans walked the land. Their d.n.a is
mirrored in ours, we are cousins to them in a fashion, and we hold aspects of
Pleiadian d.n.a, within our genetic structure. Later in the human stories, these
Pleiadian beings visited Earth, in their ships of light and the memories of their visits,
are recorded in many of the myths and stories of ancient people.

There are Pleiadian star ships orbiting the planet. They are fourth dimensional
ships there fore it is impossible for us in the third to see them. However if we could
see on the fourth dimensional level then we would see huge mother ships, circling
the planet. The Pleiadian beings on this ship are beaming energy to hold the
electromagnetic grid of the planet in love and harmony. This is the reason that the
big earthquakes that were predicted have been made less destructive and some did
not occur at all. They have amazing technology that they can harness energies and
beam them at a certain point in the third dimension.
The Pleiadian energy or frequency has been going through many shifts and
changes over the thousands of years, since their first visits to Earth. There are many
different races and dimensional levels, within the system of the Pleiades, together;
they hold the energy, which is focused, in unconditional love.

However now in our time line, they are moving as a whole system into the frequency of unconditional love.
Unconditional love is not only an elevated emotion; it is an energetic frequency in its
own right. We as humans are consciously aware on the third dimension only, the
Pleiadians were aware on the fourth dimension and now in our present time, they are
moving from a fourth dimensional awareness to a fifth dimensional awareness. As
they move up in their awareness, they begin to radiate unconditional love into the
rest of the universe.
The earth is going through a vibrational transformation. It is over time going to
shift from a third dimensional frequency to a fourth and later a fifth dimensional
frequency. A vibrational transformation means that the atoms in the cells of our
bodies are going to transform and begin to vibrate at a faster rate. It is the
vibrational rate of atoms of our bodies, which hold us in the dimensional level, we
find ourselves upon. There are many beings from many different places in the
universe coming to earth in our present time. Some of them are visiting us in space
ships; however this is not the majority. The majority are choosing to come to the
earth and incarnate into a human body. They come and incarnate here in order to
aid the planet in her transformation. Specially trained teams of Pleiadians choose to
incarnate at this time, to bring this energy of transforming through unconditional
love, here to Earth as a possibility in reality.
The stars themselves hold the energy of unconditional love, not only for the
Pleiadian system itself, but also for the whole of that section of space. We come
within the energy field of the Pleiadian system, so therefore we are under its
influence, and its movement towards unconditional love. Without this energy coming
to the Earth, we would be in a very cold place indeed. The universe is always moving
and shifting, and as we move towards the year 2012, we will come more and more
into the energy field of the Pleiades.
The Pleiadians can live to a much longer age than we do, here on the Earth.
This was partly to do with a heightened consciousness and also an innate balance
with nature. On Earth we are not connected with the consciousness that is the
planet. The Pleiadians however are very connected with the consciousness of their
planet. They live in total harmony with their planet. They brought into our human
genetic code, the ability to have empathy and compassion. Without these qualities
we would be no more than animals. In early civilizations on earth the population was
instructed by these beings coming from the Pleiades. Many of the early myths and
religions were based on experiences that humans had with these Pleiadian Gods.
The Pleiadians study the hidden meaning of colours and sounds for healing of
the emotional body. They can see the energy body around others and they can
diagnosis the emotional well being by the patterns of colours, which they see in the
person’s aura. They use colored panels of glass and held them in positions to catch
the starlight from the most distant Pleiadian stars and used the beams of colored
light to heal others. Each of the power centers or chakras of the body correspond
with one of the colours of the rainbow. Starting at the top with violet, then purple,
blue, green, yellow, orange and finally red at the base. They use their knowledge of
colours to aid in an intense healing process.

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rocklife1Name it rock and roll…
Ceva sau cineva cu care, odata ce am intrat in contact, ajunge sa ne contropeasca toate gandurile, pana ce nu mai reusim sa ne concentram asupra altui lucru. Aceasta poate fi considerata sfintenie, sau nebunie…
Is it really possible that love may transform you into a better person, even if you are not sure that now you’re still in love?!
Se intampla sa suferi, dar totodata sa te simti iubit, indragit pentru persoana care esti… Reusesti sa inlaturi obstacolele care ti-au fost pregatite pe calea vietii tale? Da!? De ce? Pentru ca simti…[…]
Chiar si o simpla imbratisare si… un sarut inofensiv, poate sa iti redea increderea si bunatatea de care ai nevoie pentru a-ti continua ritmul…
Care ritm?! Ritmul pe care tocmai dansezi, esti oare capabil sa simti ritmul, sa simti muzica? Iti provoaca un sentiment aparte, simti placerea, iti aduce un zambet sincer pe buze?! Simti ecoul in sufletul tau? Te va duce barca numita Cuvant pana la insula pe care o cauti…? In cazul acesta vei putea scrie…
Atunci aceea este piesa muzicala pe care tu alegi sa ‘dansezi’… cu toata pasiunea ta care este gata sa izbucneasca in flacari… fiind ghidata de o dorinta ‘aprinsa’ de vulcanul ce tocmai a explodat… si care se varsa acum in fiinta ta…
Depinde doar de tine insuti si ceea ce alegi… si de ceea ce esti capabil sa simti… caci viata rade de tine…You got no time left to lose, it’s your life full track… so…

It don’t matter the sex, I’m gon’ name it rock and roll…